5. Never give out your name or signature.

Your reputation is worth more than money. Signing for others, being a co-signer, or lending your name under pressure is one of the most dangerous decisions you can make.
When a problem arises, the person responsible almost always disappears, leaving you trapped.

6. Never borrow money without being sure.

Helping isn't the same as rescuing. Lending without clear agreements destroys relationships and breeds resentment.

If there is no goal, deadline and responsibility, it does not help: it is a constant waste of resources and energy.

7. Never lend your emotional energy.

Emotional manipulation impoverishes you inside and out. Making decisions based on guilt, fear, or blackmail always costs you dearly.
Healthy love doesn't require self-destructive sacrifices. Supporting someone doesn't mean carrying their life.

8. Never lend your goal to anyone.

This is the most silent and dangerous. It happens when you say yes to paths that are not yours.
Helping everyone but yourself distracts you and extinguishes your calling. Not all good things are meant for you.

Practical tips and recommendations:

Learn to say “no” without guilt or long explanations.

Set clear boundaries before offering help.

Consider whether what you're giving is a gift or a loan. Never choose something ambiguous.

Take care of your peace of mind as if it were an irreplaceable treasure.

Consider which relationships strengthen you and which ones drain you.

Protect your reputation, your time and your focus as part of your legacy.

Remember:   helping from conviction brings peace; helping under pressure brings exhaustion.

Poverty isn't always a lack of money; it often stems from a lack of boundaries. And the greatest losses don't begin with big mistakes, but with small, missed "yes." Putting your life in order is also a spiritual act.